The Journey Behind The Human System 

“I wish I had found this book 20 years ago - it would have saved me years of searching for answers.”

I grew up in Poland, in an old cottage without a bathroom, sharing a room with other family members. You can probably imagine what that was like when I say my earliest memories include the sound of mice scratching beneath the floorboards. I never realised how much shame I had accumulated through constant comparison to others. And trust me, at times, anything seemed better than where I was. 

Yet, alongside the shame, I also hold many happy memories – ones filled with love and affection. But every time shame resurfaced, the only thought that consumed me was: I want to leave. And the first chance I got, I did. Only to realise, years later, that it was never about the people or the place itself. What I had truly wanted to escape were the emotions of shame, fear, and others I couldn’t even name at the time. 

Cycles of conflict among those around me were evident, yet no one could have imagined the lasting impact – I had assumed for this to be normal. Nobody knew what I would create in my own mind, shaped by everything I had seen and heard. 

But I had my own desk and even now I love knowledge for the knowledge itself. I remember sitting as a child, practising my handwriting and admiring the words on the page. Years later, I felt that same admiration when I looked at the words that would become The Human System. 

I have revisited my past enough to know that the only way forward is to release it – to accept it exactly as it was, along with everyone and everything in it, and to be grateful for where it led me. The release process isn’t easy. At first, it brings up anger, blame and then hurt. But that process is exactly what I wrote about, as it was happening to me. 

I understand now that leaving everything behind doesn’t bring peace. You can move to another country, far from the people and places of your past, yet still carry the same emotions. I used to think the goal was to focus only on the positive aspects of past experiences, but the truth was simpler – I needed to see all of it.  

Every experience is like a coin – you can only see one side at a time from your own perspective, but that doesn’t mean the other side doesn’t exist. When memories resurface with new meaning, they reveal the fuller picture. And in that realisation, the emotional weight lifts naturally – because you finally understand not only how the past impacted you, but how you impacted it in return. 

Moving to Ireland was only a temporary relief. Eventually, I had to face the patterns playing out in my present, built upon the foundations of the past. My mindset needed adjusting regarding many areas of life. My body reflected all these struggles. I suffered from chronic back pain, digestive issues, and respiratory problems. And then one day, I made the decision to address each one, determined to understand where this process was leading me. 

In 2019, something unexpected happened – I knew I was going to write a book. I had no idea what it would be about, but I started writing immediately. At first, I focused on my own behaviour, making lists of what I wanted to change about myself, recognising the impact I had on others and vice versa. But then, something greater took over. The words flowed as if they were being downloaded from somewhere beyond me. The knowledge arrived before I even had the language to name it. 

Through my work as a contract negotiator in a global legal department, I was privileged to have a platform to speak with people from all around the world. I soon discovered that regardless of appearances or backgrounds, we are all fundamentally the same - our minds, emotions, and bodies operate in remarkably similar ways. This realisation led me to understand that every experience, every observation, every interaction – at work and all around me – was part of a larger system waiting to be uncovered.

My work interactions began to naturally transform into emotional healing sessions. I was happy to share the knowledge I was gaining and apply my ability to navigate through energy. During this time, my understanding of people expanded significantly, and I began to recognise the common patterns that shape us all.

After five years of writing I refined the key concepts that ultimately became The Human System. This book became bigger than I ever had expected and so I removed myself from its pages – not because my story doesn’t matter, but because yours does. My journey led me to discover the system, but The Human System exists for you – to help you break free from emotional suffering, understand your mind, restore your body, and connect to something greater than yourself. 

These concepts are built on years of professional observation, lived experience, and continued professional study in the field of emotional intelligence to further offer personalised services and raise awareness of the connection between all the components that make you - you! 

This book isn’t just knowledge – it’s application.